Analogy Hell

The more work I do to unravel my own reality from the reality that the Narcissist was desperately trying to drill into my head, the more I start to realize the various techniques that came into play to keep me continually confused. Two of the main methods that my Narcissist used frequently were Cognitive Dissonance […]

I’m Special Too Dammit!

Today’s rant is brought to you by my breaking the no contact rule. Every time I do it there is a logical reason for it, and then I suffer as a result. In the several times I have broken my own no contact rule I have been left feeling used, foolish, stupid, worthless… and ANGRY. […]

Celebrating my Independence Day

D-day is next week. Everything will be finalized. I will never have another reason to interact with the Narcissist again. I am anxious about having to see him but I am happy to finally cross that milestone. So this weekend, I will not be celebrating America’s Independence Day (sorry America, I’ve been paying for your […]

Books to get you through: From Charm to Harm

I recently started reading “From Charm to Harm” by Greg Zaffuto and so far it has been helping me decode the Narcissist and unravel from all the gas-lighting and crazy-making! He also has a great blog… check out his latest post below. From my Book – From Charm to Harm and Everything else in Between […]