Written by divorcinganarcissistblogJune 20, 2016June 20, 2016 My Narcissist stole my Anger Share this:TwitterFacebookGoogleLike this:Like Loading... Related 13 thoughts on “My Narcissist stole my Anger” How well I know this ploy. The puppet would do something….I would get mad….and HE would get mad at ME for getting mad at him. Perfect! LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I can’t tell you how many books/blogs/etc. I have read over the course of my marriage about how to get rid of anger. He had me convinced that I had an anger problem, and any time I showed even the slightest bit of emotion, I was told that I was out of control! LikeLike Reply I got the “you backed me into a corner!” LOL These scumbags have all the answers…to benefit themselves! LikeLiked by 1 person ‘He believes your voice shouldn’t rise’ I have felt it way too many times before. I have been labeled as the emotional abuser. I refuse to label him but the red flags are too many. I am in the middle of the storm still trying 😢 I am sorry for what you have endured HUGS, m LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Watchmesurvive, stay strong! You can get through this and there are many people out there willing to help!! LikeLiked by 1 person Reply So many times I have thought, I am not allowed to express my emotions! I wear my emotions on my sleeve, I am passionate yet he wants to tune it all down. Anger is the one most discrimized, WHY? He pretends we should all communicate in such a controlled manner, I just can’t! But hey, he doesn’t expect perfection!!! I haven’t been able to blow up about this before, thank you! LikeLiked by 1 person Its an interesting dynamic when even your ability to express emotions is controlled. The more he tried to keep me from expressing my anger / frustration / hurt / pain… the more angry it made me. If you asked my ex about me today he would probably tell you he lived with Godzilla when in reality if I raised my voice a decibel I was blamed for being “out of control with anger” or “not choosing love.” LikeLike Sounds all too familiar, I am so sorry for what you endured. LikeLiked by 1 person It wasn’t until i saw the pictures he posted online of himself,that i knew i wasn’t crazy or the drama queen he labled me as. It was all him; it really was all about him. i cherish looking him in the eye, telling precisely that it was all about him and no matter how superior he saw himself as, he was the one who posted those pictures and who unlocked my sanity, allowing me to set myself free. Life has gone on, gotten better. And I don’t need or want him as my friend, no matter how immature that makes me. My friends don’t lie, tell me i’m stupid or crazy when one plus one equals 15. Tough being called out for the lies you told and can’t remember. Deflection and intimidation only work for so long. Now you get to be responsible for you and cannot And I gift you my anger, I don’t want it anymore, i’ve shed the real problem. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply yep LikeLike Reply In the selfie generation seeing adults take that behavior is laughable, no worries he is the immature LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Meant to reply to desertgirl1009 LikeLike Reply Pingback: ihatemynarcissisticman Leave a Reply Cancel reply Enter your comment here... Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Email (required) (Address never made public) Name (required) Website You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Twitter account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Facebook account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Google+ account. ( Log Out / Change ) Cancel Connecting to %s Notify me of new comments via email.